I dont know if I subscribe to those methods plus tightening stem nut first, I think last is better..
I will throw this out there. I think first the lower tree should be snugged up without wheel on, THEN slide upper tree on , LOOKING for any binding or drag, while pushing it in place.. this allows you to SEE any misalignment, and catch it and CORRECT it BEFORE continuing..
This as opposed to blindly assembling it with BINDING components, because someone said that is the trick way to do it..... not saying its bad, just carefull examination while assembling, can go a long way in catching a problem SOONER..rather that later