1. The direction you showed the plate above is correct: the grooves must spin the oil OUT of the clutch plate when the clutch is released and pinches the metal & fiber plates together. If backward, the dispersal of oil is slowed down as it tries to fight its way back into the grooves, and the plate slips. This is true for all Japanese bikes with the slanted plate corks.
2. The bolts should tighten all the way down until they stop: if you have a torque wrench, apply 80-90 inch lbs on them at the end.
3. Be SURE that the top plate (i.e., pressure plate) is engaged up against the cork plate. It is easy to accidentally leave it sitting atop one of the splines, and the plates will barely engage if this is the case.