I thought I posted here a moment ago, but it didn't take so here it is again.
My chart say 25 to 28 ft lbs on a drain bolt! No Way!
I have a code about crushables: like drain plugs, spark plugs, oil filter bolts, tappet covers, etc, with crushable washers: hand tighten then a good umph with a 6 inch wrench, you should feel the washer give, then STOP! If it leaks, tighten a bit more till it stops.
You may find a self tapping drain plug from auto store. They use them when they strip a car oil pan.
You may remove your pan and repair the thread.
You can get crushable drain washers anywhere, just use metric so they fit nice. I buy from OEM, 10 at a time. Use a new one each time. The one in question is 12mm. At $1.48 you can do better, though that wouldn't stop me. Just look around for a different application that uses 12mm crush washer.