saying that going with a larger tire will make it handle like a truck is not really correct, it really is going to depend alot on how you ride, I mainly do canyoun riding so I use the sides alot, so a flat wear pattern is not an issue, if all you do if flat freeway riding you might wear a flatter spot, but you would also do this in a skinny tire. Second, a flatter wear pattern will be way more sinnificant if it is in the front.
How many miles on those "fatter" tires, so far? Fat tires on skinny rims increase the sidewall mount angle, and this loses sidewall integrity. To compensate, the normal response to combat the "squirminess" is to increase tire pressure. This helps to stiffen the sidewall but also pushes the center tread crown into the road and increases wear there.
As I said, while the tires are new and the tread crown radius is near new contour, the handling is acceptable if you don't mind the increased weight. In time, the tread center will still wear faster, and I simply don't believe you can lean over far enough to to use all the round over tread.
With the proper size tires on the skinny rims, the wear pattern stays pretty even until all the tread is gone.
Bragging about canyon carving is more about bravado than actual science and real life, imo.
And believe me, a "squared off" rear tire effects handling as bad as a squared off front. BTDT.