Well, 2 things:
1. The 4.10x19 size actually crosses to the 3.50x19 equivalent, so it will be a tight fit on a 500/550 front.
2. Check your wheel bearings, and spoke tightness. A small amount of flex when side loaded is normal, but not much. With the bike on the centerstand and the wheel pointed straight ahead, push firmly (sideways) against the metal rim, between the forks, and note how far it moves, and if it has any looseness at all. There should not be any perceptible movement, except for bending of the spokes.
Finally: run at least 35-38 PSI in the trigonometric tires. They are not made to run at the tire pressures of the older label on the bike. Their smaller tire patch (when vertical) requires the air pressure strength to provide the linear handling they can give, and the lack of roll-over when pushed to their sidewalls.
Of course, all this presumes they are really trigonometrics, and not just re-numbered metrics: I recently saw some from Cheng Shin that were labelled "K81" in the 4.10 and 5.10 size on a CB650C, and they were nothing more than round-profile tires with "K81" molded on them, and a similar-looking block tread pattern. Certainly not sidewall-racing tires...