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This is the same how-to I used. It's basically the only one I can find on the internet and is just re-done on a few different formats. It doesn't tell you where to start (key spokes), just to line up the holes but you need a specific start.
I used old timers advice and did one group until it was done. The pattern turned out perfect and it looks correct as I'd referenced another wheel while doing it, but all the spoke are threaded to the end of nipples and there's still about 3/4" of slack.
Do I have the wrong spokes maybe?
On the how to, you'd start with all insides. It wouldn't matter where you start as everything keys off of that. In the how to, the poster was cheating a little as he could still see the scars from the original lacing and could simply match the spokes up to that. Do you not have scars on your hub from where the original spokes went?
If all of the spokes have thread showing and you got it laced up you'll have to grind down the overage. If its just onoe set of spokes like all of the rt side insides, then you may have it laced wrong.
BTW having to grind down excess spoke is common, but shouldn't apply (usually) to more than 5-10 spokes. I suppose it could apply to all of them. Doesn't mean you have the wrong spokes. Did you buy them OEM or aftermarket? Quality control.
If the nipples are all the way down and there is not enough thread left to true the wheel, then you likely have it laced wrong, or #2 less likely, wrong spokes