You are correct the larger one is for the fuel. The other one is for the air vent as you were suspecting. Looks like you are reusing the old o-rings for the fuel connector, seems to be about the same diameter as the aluminum so you are not getting much sealing with that.
The o-ring is about ID: 6mm Diameter and 2mm thickness.
Try harbor freight they have an o-ring kit that is real close or a hardware store. Make sure they are nitrile if viton is not available.