I've never bought anything from Meta, and didn't even know they were in the selling business. As far as I know my info came from elsewhere.
They're in the info business (personal, financial etc), if it's out there it's their job to get it.... Facebook, Ebay, PayPal,MC, amex, X, you name it... Then there's the scammers.... life has gotten way to complicated for no good reason....
I still use cash quite a bit (gas, food, etc, ok everything.), I get that look of annoyance from some people once in a while, (you know the look and the people) that says, "I got a fossil over here". Anyways, meta, yeah it sucks....
A few weeks ago, a friend got a message on his phone, appearing to be from his bank, asking if he had just spent $XXX at Walmart(?). He immediately responded that he hadn't to the link provided, and entered a "code" to confirm. As soon as he did, he realized he had just been scammed, and had his account frozen. He spent a bunch of time at the bank the next day getting things squared away.
A couple of months ago, I went into my bank to deposit a check, move some money from checking to savings, and withdraw some cash. The first two went as normal, but on the third, the teller said I would have to scan my debit card again, which is normal, but then she said "Oh, never mind, we're sending a text." I responded "What do you mean?" She says they will send me a code to verify my identity!!?? WTF, I'm standing right in front of her! I was pissed! I told her my phone was not a security device, and I never did banking over the phone or internet. After I read her the code from my phone, she did complete the transaction, but I told her the next time I would leave my phone in the car. Hell, I had texting turned off on my old phone: any texts people sent me went into the ether without me knowing. Not long after, there was a story in the news about a new way to steal someones identity: the perpetrator gets enough info about you to call your phone provider and convince them that someone has stolen your phone, or you lost it, and have the victims phone disabled and theirs activated with the victims number. They then call the bank to access the victims account, the bank sends a code to verify, and bingo, they're in.

I'm also a fossil! I pay cash for everything except bills. I piss and moan about the Kiosks to order food at McDonalds and Taco Bell. I don't even have credit cards.