Yeah, I was going to say that you just haven't found the right shop yet..eventually you will find the right one, and then you'll live happily ever after..
I of course went right down to the local Honda dealer. All I wanted was new brake pads on the back..the guy gave me a flat "NO!" and dissed me big time...he's not there any more by the way...but then one day, I happened across Kieth @ Extreme Motors...it's more like Kieths old Honda Town, he's got a shop in a little garage in his basement, and all he does is work on old Hondas at home...I go there for the tough stuff, and I fiddle with the rest....someday you'll find the mechanic of your dreams, and when you do, it will be worth the wait. Until then, stick with this bunch of loonies!