MC...............Good to hear you are OK after the somewhat controlled laydown...............About the wheel hop............Terry has already pointed out the fork brace so check to make sure it is properly fitted.........no pressure, binding, pulling ............just sets in place and is perfectly level with the axle. I also see that others have pointed to the tire and wheel for potential issues, and I agree they are worthy targets.
I had a similar hop a long time ago on my early K3.......same fork internals as yours..........easy fix was a wheel weight. Fork binding, sticksion, miss-alighnment, even a a twist or slightly bent fork seldom causes wheel-hop at 45-50 mph.
So you checked the rim to see if its true.........have you checked the outside circumference of the tire? I once had a really out of round tire on the rear that hopped like crazy and could only be fixed by replacing it.
Regarding your original question............with the bike supported and wheel mounted but loose, I observe my top tree to make sure the tubes are balanced (in my case, just a hair above level with the tree) and lightly snug the top and bottom trees...........then I lower the bike to put weight on the wheel and make sure the bike is balanced. I use a carpenter's level as a straight-edge to make sure the tubes and axle are in-line with triple-trees.........then I tighten the bottom tree (about 20lbs) and snug the top tree to 12 lbs. Now I tighten the axle nuts and make sure the front is tight before the back nuts. I don't have a fork brace other than my fender.
If I replaced the fork oil, I "pump" the front wheel with the caps off to make sure no air is locked into the bottoms of the forks. I don't use preload, but I do use 10w fork oil. My forks are on the stiff side. In the mid-70s HONDA softened the forks on most of their bikes and in the late 70s added air-assist. They rated the air-pressure at 17-20 lbs. I have found that to be WAY too much air. I follow their directions on later models to only use about 4 lbs on my other bikes that have air-assisted forks.
I'll be going through a front-end procedure in a week or so when my new tire arrives.......last one was an IRC 100/90 and lasted about 10,000 miles. This time I'm going with a Dunlop TT100 design to match my new rear.