It was cancer, Terry. From what I was told, it started as breast cancer, then was in remission, then came back and metastasized to her brain. The good news was that during the remission, she was able to travel and do some things on her bucket list, like bicycling in Italy. I didn't think to ask if she ever made it to New Zealand, but that was one of the places she told me she wanted to go to, many years ago. She had a T-shirt when I first met her that said something like "5 million sheep, 500,000 people".
She took the picture of Henry and I standing in front of my VW bus, in 1981. That was when she first met him.
One of the things that struck me hard, was that the last time I tried to get in touch with her was only 6 months or so before she passed. I found out that she had gotten married, and was given her new phone number, and called a couple of times, but only got an answering machine. Since I was unsure how her husband would react to a call from a former boyfriend, I never left a message, and decided to let a sleeping dog lie. I regret that now....