SOmetimes we all look for a little sympathy and understanding,
but usually only after posting a bit more so we can get to know you first.
having suffered through tough times myself (26 years of marriage

)
I learned how to deal with difficult people with humor etc etc.
If you go around saying things like my former roommate:
Life $uchs then you die,
then life can be difficult and you may die like he did at 31.
so, go out for a walk, pump some iron, do 100 situps,
It will improve your mood.
peace,
mcihel