I think the reason you couldn't get the spacer to slide over is because the rod you are using it too big diameter wise. It just doesn't allow any "wiggle" room.
I have a set of brass drifts I picked up at Northern Tool. I used the middle of the three drifts and pushed the spacer over. I entered on the side without the retaining nut. I stuck the drift in just far enough to clear the bearing and pushed it off to the side. It took alittle force, but it moved. I was then able to put the bigger drift in from the retainer side and knock the bearing out.
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Using the tool loaner program is great, but I don't belive the bearing puller they have will fit into the front wheen bearing. It might work on the rear bearing, but I am not sure.
Where in NC are you located? You might be close enough to me that I could swing by and help.