Rings are dangerous for anybody who does more than sit on the couch and watch TV. I have been witness to many ugly mishaps involving rings. The first big fight between my wife and I concerned wedding rings. She had worn me down to the point where I finally proposed (one of the smartest things I ever did as it has turned out), so we went ring shopping. She wanted me to get one, too. I said fine, but I am not going to wear it. I'll keep is on my key ring if you insist on us getting one. She immediately assumed I didn't want one so other women wouldn't know I was married, so I explained to her about all the mangled hands I'd seen. I even told her I didn't recommend that she wear one either, but she didn't buy it and stayed mad for awhile. She got over it after a few days and I still kid her about it occasionally.