Scott, I see what you are saying but it does not take someone exceptionally smart to say "hey man your recent offer is going to be more than I just offered". maybe I am really old fashioned, but if you offer to sell something for $5 and the guy "counter" offers to buy it for $7, you sell it to him for $5, that's all. I also mentioned in my original post it wasn't a big deal to me, but it was noteworthy, so I am done defending that portion, it really isn't a big deal. I was happy to pay $100 for it, just bummed to find out the end result of the means. He put no insurance on the package, with a packing job like that. with the tank butting up against the box. who, in this day and age, does not know that shippers throw their boxes around? it seems to be common sense. I don't think I meant to say he was out to screw me if it came across like that. I would never suspect that. but when you pack a tank made out of thin metal like that, with no insurance, you are taking a mighty big risk.
also on a separate but related note, why isn't there some type of transaction rating system on this forum. there is over at talkbass, and other like-forums. it seems to reinforce the community of good sellers, as there is rarely a bad review, but its also nice to see reviews and comments for everyone selling. helps everyone out.