If the idle doesn't change when shifting from neutral to first, then the idle solenoid is working. When the idle solenoid isn't working, the idle will noticeably drop when you shift into gear. Regardless, you can watch the dashpot/diaphram "pull in" when going from neutral to drive (this test best done with the bike on the centerstand, and the park brake locked).
If you are saying that even when the bike if fully warmed up - and you turn off the choke, the bike dies (or won't idle) - sounds like you need a carb rebuild. These carbs are very, very finicky - and must be very, very clean. Is the gas tank rust free? Regardless a fuel filter is always good insurance and recommended by most.
My 78A is slow from a stop, but when it gets rolling 20 mph or so, it picks up pretty good. Was this the 78A on craigslist? I believe I saw one for sale on the south side of the metro (not in Denver but south)? I was just in Denver this past weekend - could have stopped by . . . .
At least in Denver you do have help nearby, if you can't do things yourself. Hondaman lives in Englewood (I think), or thereabouts.