Hook up to the black wiring that is switched hot. Black/red is the headlight power that came through your starter switch. Your starter switch is a special dpst switch. Douple pole single throw. When just sitting there the black wire powers the black red which in turn send power to the headlight. When depressed on your bike, in the past, black diverted to the signal wire y/r for the starter relay, getting it?
Black power to the B/R would be the stock way of hooking it up. If you are doing your own thing I would just simply run black power to your headlight. What I would suggest and do on my bike for tuning is hardwire a toggle or rocker switch to the back of the headlight bucket to turn headlight on/off
It would save precious juice for a small bike to start up, and flip it when you need it
Oldmanhonda.com
I'm guessing you have a brown/red wire that goes from headlight fuse to bucket, to headlight on/off switch. Use that as your headlight power, with the rocker switch inline. That is how I did it on my custom harness