Well, I did it. The Pit Posse's breaker tool I got was their low end tool. I wouldn't have minded spending more money but the heavier duty ones have larger pins (obviously) and I knew my cam chain rivets were only around 3mm. I grinded off the rivet head on my installed chain and pushed it out. Then I pushed a pin out of the new chain as trueblue mentioned without letting it go all the way out.
I connected the chains with some small wire and pulled it through. After some worrisome moments, I had both ends of the new chain in my hand. I used the tool to push the rivet back through the chain. Done... Much easier than I thought. The breaker made easy work of the rivet in the new chain. The difference is astounding.
Here's a picture of the tensioner someone had in it. I knew it wasn't a Honda creation when I saw the threads poking through the case

I broke it taking it apart, the casing wasn't cracked. So I should be good now. The timing is dead on and I got the head back together. Someone put a 1mm over Wiseco high compression piston in it. The bike has a compression release on it but it looks like someone took the mounting hardware off it. Should be a runner....