river, it's good you're sharing your thoughts as it helps everyone give you honest advice. Sorry about your limitations caused by your neck, it should be seriously consdidered when choosing the type of bike you ride. Believe me, each style of bike has a purpose, be it adventure, brat, street or whatever & using the wrong one because you like the look can be a painful mistake. You seem interested & drawn to the sport even though you had a bad experience, & now you want to learn a better way, that's awesome. Do some research, try out a few bikes whenever you can & see what might fit your lifestyle, then you will really enjoy our shared passion. Attitude is the most important attribute.