Looking good Ed, as you've discovered, rust eater is usually phosphoric acid, which is great stuff for cleaning rust out of gas tanks and chrome rims, but no good for zinc plated nuts and bolts, spokes etc, as it eats zinc too.
Those bullet tumblers are great and with the right media will bring small parts up like new, but I just use my wire wheel on my bench grinder and spray 'em with some WD40 afterwards.
As far as stainless steel bolts go, they're fantastic and if you take your old bolts to a bolt shop, they'll be able to supply most of the ones you need. They may be longer than stock, but the good thing is you can shorten them to the correct length and polish the cut off ends if necessary, as unlike chrome or zinc plated bolts, they won't rust.
Otherwise, you can buy the repro "big 8" frame bolts from Yamiya. Not cheap, but nice. Cheers, Terry.