Something not right there. The spring should never be that stretched. Either the rod is too short or it's mushroomed out on the ball bearing, which is common by the way and would also account for why it doesn't want to go back in.
Not trying for a sale here but I'll be selling most of the parts you can see in your pics shortly, all are NOS. I have what you call the sled, I call it the worm drive, the seal, the horseshoe clamp, got 2 of the outer sleeves the worm drive engages into and around 8 og the ball bearings.