Godffery has good advice. Kevin's swing arm is very nice, the shipping fees are what kills you. But the arm is a beauty and he's an awesome guy to do business with.
Another option on your setup:
18" fronts with stock forks, but new Progressive Springs, add a fork brace. You shouldn't need beefier forks unless your intended use is track or higher speed riding. Same is true for the swing arm. You could go to Hondaman for a swing arm rebuild, pressed in bronze bushings to improve the performance of it without modification.
But your rear shock are where you should spend you money, not the swing arm. Better shocks, upgrade the springs in your forks, add a brace, and drill your rotor for minor weight gains. Good SS lines and fully rebuilt caliper and pads, you should feel it to be a better bike.
Short of significant upgrades to modern suspension front and rear, it's still going to be a 40 year old bike. And behave that way...
Without cranking the HP way up, really is the braking insufficient? Probably not. Updated looks are really nice, but they are expensive. Go this route and determine what your real needs are. Swing arms and forks can easily be changed in a day/weekend later without much loss of expenditure on your stock components being updated. And your rear shocks will still be beneficial and useable with a new swing arm...