I'm still battling mine. The bolt doesn't at all resemble to kind hexagon it once was. In fact, I think its jagged, retarded form is going to haunt my nightmares tonight. I've been going at it with all I've got: a hairdryer. It warms up a bit, but it still won't budge. But I'm going to try again in a few minutes -- this time with a ipod and a beer on hand, and also with some dot3 juice, as recommended above (I forgot that I had some).
I'm thinking I might just have to not change my filter for this oil change. Booklet recommends changing the filter every other oil change, and I changed the filter last time. I live in a dusty, dirty place, though, so that's why I thought it would be a good idea to put a new one in there. This is my only means of transportation, so I have to do something like tomorrow. (And I suppose this is my only real option, given that I don't have a replacement on hand).
Also, I stopped by my local bloated honda shop to look into a replacement, and they sell them (or can order, I didn't get that far) for $50. They only sell it as a set, with the spring and seal and a few other dinky parts that somehow push the price to half a Franklin (or, for that matter, one full Ulysses S. Grant).
I'll check dave silver for the 17mm, order it if it's there, and then once it arrives take my chainsaw to my current one in order to get it off. That'll teach it who's boss.