Funny... I've got the torquing sequence memorized as well now.
I lost count how many times I bolted the head on and then took it back off (fooling around with clay on the pistons and measuring clearances).
Did you leave the inner springs on for measuring the clearance? I thought about buying some weaker springs at the hardware store - but ended up just using the inner springs.
I was able to get a clearance measurement with both springs installed during my final assembly (as mentioned above), but that was only for the intakes, as it was easier get the tire iron in there at a good angle. I was too nervous to try and pry up the lifters for the exhaust with both springs in, as it seemed like it could crack the towers. It worked fine with only one spring... just scared me too much to try it with both springs in there.
I found that my intake valves had the least amount of clearance around 5-8 degrees ATDC. And the exhaust around 5 degrees BTDC - but your engine may be different.
Good luck!