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Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« on: March 02, 2014, 10:14:29 AM »


        Dad's breathing seemed rattled more than usual and Michelle called the Hospice Nurse. She came out, checked him over and told us that all indications are that he has about 24-48hrs. I know he has had problems and I knew this was coming, but it just doesn't seem real. It wasn't that long ago, that he was able to get around and then he had to have the pacemaker and then, recently the pneumonia and then a week after getting out of the hospital, back in for congestive heart failure and then I find out that the hospital has done all they can and Arkansas Hospice shows up and here we are. Was so looking forward to his Birthday, which would make him 89yrs old. Almost 90. Such a long life and 12yrs without my Mom. Have to keep an eye on my Daughter, cause she lost her Mom in 09 and now losing her Granddad, she is on edge, to say the least. My Wife, Michelle, is going to have her hands full, I imagine, helping me take care of my Daughter and I am doing my best to keep myself going. As you all are my Family as well, I wanted to let you all know that it is coming soon. 
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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #1 on: March 02, 2014, 10:47:49 AM »
Our prayers are with you and your family. I know how hard these times are.  :(
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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #2 on: March 02, 2014, 11:05:59 AM »
Your Dad,yourself,Michelle and family have all paid your dues and deserve your rest.

You and Michelle have given your dad a great gift looking after him so well in his final years.

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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #3 on: March 02, 2014, 11:12:46 AM »
Bill,

Sorry to hear this.  Hang in there. Your dad has been blessed with a son like you.

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« Reply #4 on: March 02, 2014, 11:35:44 AM »
Bill,  God will surely give you the strength to carry on...Larry

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« Reply #5 on: March 02, 2014, 12:16:53 PM »
You and your dad are in my prayers sir.

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« Reply #6 on: March 02, 2014, 01:29:34 PM »
Bill,im so sorry to read this,my thoughts are with you and your family


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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #7 on: March 02, 2014, 01:44:15 PM »
Sorry to hear of this Bill.
You have done everything in your heart right to help out a family member that was deserving of it.
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« Reply #8 on: March 02, 2014, 02:10:04 PM »

    Thank you all, for your support and input here, greatly appreciated to have the "Family" support here. Ya know, you think you have it together, you go through a period of time, like we have, you make E.R. ruins, hospital and doctor trips and yet, he just kept on going and seeming to be able to get back up and go some more. But, since we have moved back to Arkansas, of the 1st 6 months, he went to the E.R. 6 times. We dealt with whatever came up and he seemed to be able to get back up, though sometimes it was slow, he did it.  But, in February, he went in for the pneumonia and back in a week later, for the congestive heart failure and the 2 so close together, have done a number on him.

   Here is a shot of what my Dad liked doing, for fun (also liked building bikes to do this with. He didn't build this one though. The Jawa/CZ Factory Representative "Loaned" my Dad this CZ175 Scrambler, for the weekend! Wish I had a chance to ride that one.  ;)

             
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« Reply #9 on: March 02, 2014, 02:28:39 PM »
Sorry to hear it Bill

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« Reply #10 on: March 02, 2014, 04:07:50 PM »
It's not easy, just another thing about being an adult that's not stressed (Duty) and how to react to you and yours. You'll make it, probably he will be better off. I really haven't found those word's of wisdom that I've been looking since my wife died but next time I see my girls I'll try and put my up coming demise in context.
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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #11 on: March 02, 2014, 04:26:23 PM »
Bill,

Sorry to hear this.  Hang in there. Your dad has been blessed with a son like you.

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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #12 on: March 02, 2014, 04:36:26 PM »
   Here is a shot of what my Dad liked doing, for fun (also liked building bikes to do this with. He didn't build this one though. The Jawa/CZ Factory Representative "Loaned" my Dad this CZ175 Scrambler, for the weekend! Wish I had a chance to ride that one.  ;)

             

I hope my kids are as supportive to me as you have and continue to be to your dad.
I also hope they post a picture of the things (bikes mainly) that give me some of my purpose.
You're a good guy Bill and I'm sure you father has enjoyed a lifetime of rewarding experiences and is proud of the legacy he leaves behind.

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« Reply #13 on: March 02, 2014, 04:37:08 PM »
Bill, I am very sorry to hear about this turn of events. Seeing that picture of your Dad scrambling through the woods shows he was a Man who enjoyed life. A life well lived is sometimes better than a long life. It seems like your Dad had both. Celebrate the Man. 
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« Reply #14 on: March 02, 2014, 06:53:16 PM »
Sorry to hear Bill. As others have said, you are a good son and I'm sure your dad would agree, he raised one good kid.

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« Reply #16 on: March 02, 2014, 07:04:26 PM »

    Thank you all, for your support and input here, greatly appreciated to have the "Family" support here. Ya know, you think you have it together, you go through a period of time, like we have, you make E.R. ruins, hospital and doctor trips and yet, he just kept on going and seeming to be able to get back up and go some more. But, since we have moved back to Arkansas, of the 1st 6 months, he went to the E.R. 6 times. We dealt with whatever came up and he seemed to be able to get back up, though sometimes it was slow, he did it.  But, in February, he went in for the pneumonia and back in a week later, for the congestive heart failure and the 2 so close together, have done a number on him.

   Here is a shot of what my Dad liked doing, for fun (also liked building bikes to do this with. He didn't build this one though. The Jawa/CZ Factory Representative "Loaned" my Dad this CZ175 Scrambler, for the weekend! Wish I had a chance to ride that one.  ;)

             
That's an awesome pic, Bill. What wonderful memories it must bring you.
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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #17 on: March 02, 2014, 07:04:52 PM »
any one of us would be lucky to have a son like you sir.

you and your family are in my prayers.


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« Reply #18 on: March 02, 2014, 07:19:17 PM »

       Folks, I can tell you enough, what it means to me, to see your input and support here. I knew that I would have this support though, because that is just the way our Forum operates. You folks care and that is awesome!

       My Dad was SO into motorcycles and the events. As I was growing up, I dreamed of the day when I would be a part of that. Problem is, as I approached that age, things were changing, the guys my Dad rode with and did things with, were getting older and some were having medical issues and such. Next thing I knew, I was in high school and preparing to go into the Air Force, upon Graduation. I felt I owed it to my Country, to do my part, in what ever way I could, so I volunteered for a 6 yr hitch in the Air Force (4 active & 2 inactive). About half way through my 2 yr tour in Japan, my Granddad passed away. That rocked my world severely. I loved my Mom, Grandparents and other relatives, but my Dad and my Granddad and I were very close and all had the Love of motorcycles. I would give anything to have the wealth of knowledge that those 2 men had between the 2 of them. At a certain age (don't remember exactly how old, for sure, maybe around13) My Dad would quiz me on how an engine worked, in it's entirety. Every time I said something that wasn't right or wasn't completely clear, he would stop me, tell me it was wrong and make me start over again.  He would give me 2 attempts each time and after that I would have to wait til later, to try again. He kept after me, until I could tell him how an engine worked, from the intake to the exhaust. Then, he told me he would give me a motorcycle, only thing he didn't tell me, right away, was that it was all apart. Yeah, in pieces! The only parts that were assembled were the wheels. I had to find all of the parts and had to use all the used parts that I could. I had to cut all of the gaskets, except the head gasket. IO had to remove all of the paint and we had no sandpaper! He had me get some used piston rings that they had for this purpose. You held a piston ring at an angle and scraped the paint off of all of the parts.  Only then, was IO allowed to use some sand paper to finish it up. My Granddad rebuilt the crankshaft, my Dad adjusted the voltage regulator on the generator and mixed the paint and adjusted the spray on the paint Spray gun. A friend of the family stitched up a new seat cover and I did the rest. I never thought I would EVER have a complete motorcycle out of all of those parts! For awhile, I wasn't very happy about what I had to go through, to have that motorcycle, but after awhile, I realized what a valuable education I had gotten from my Dad (and His Dad did the same thing to (for) him! So, a tradition was passed down to my Dad and on down to me. I didn't have a son to pass it onto, but now, after remarrying, I have a Step Son and I hope to pass down to him, what I can, of what was passed down to me. I only hope I can do as good of a job of it. God Help Me!

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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #19 on: March 03, 2014, 03:34:55 AM »
So sorry Bill, just know there are a lot of people thinking of you and your dad.

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Re: Well, It Looks Like We Are Down To 24-48Hrs, For My Dad
« Reply #20 on: March 03, 2014, 05:45:53 AM »
Sounds like you have a lot of really good memories, Bill.  Those are the important things to remember.  This time will pass.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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« Reply #21 on: March 03, 2014, 03:58:09 PM »


 Thank you, guys. It is obvious that he is slowly going. There are signs and it is hard to realize that it is coming down to this.   
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