Author Topic: The Time Has Come And My Dad Has Passed..... (Read 3619 times)

bill440cars · « **on:** March 04, 2014, 09:20:44 AM »

He was still with us, when my Wife checked at about 2am and when I got up at about 7, I checked and I couldn't tell if he was breathing or not. So, I got Michelle and we realized that he had passed. So, anyway, we have called Hospice and the Coroner's office has come and the funeral home has come and gotten my Dad. Even knowing, is not helping. Then, to add to that, my brother's daughter (the one who called the Sheriff's Dept and Adult Protective Services on me) some how, found out (the Lady at the funeral home swears that my number is the only one she has and she will try to find out who called her. Anyway, I have already had it out with my brother's daughter through texts and she is REALLY throwing some crap out and she wonders WHY my Dad disowned them? Besides, my Dad has just passed and she wants to know the details of the service? Really? Give me a break! I am so mad that I could bite Nails in two!!!!!!!

And I Love how she refers to being "FAMILY"! Sorry, but this is just so typical my brother and his bunch!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damfino · « **Reply #1 on:** March 04, 2014, 09:36:14 AM »

My sincere condolences Bill, I just went through pretty much the same thing with my mother the week before Christmas. It will get easier.

gerhed · « **Reply #2 on:** March 04, 2014, 09:39:02 AM »

Bill,
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Regards,
Phil

754 · « **Reply #3 on:** March 04, 2014, 09:43:33 AM »

Sorry for your loss Bill.. Remain strong, to get through these next few weeks..
You did a commendable job of looking after your Father, I am sure it was much appreciated and made his last year's so much better. Kudos to You and yours..

ekpent · « **Reply #4 on:** March 04, 2014, 09:52:58 AM »

Been through it with both of my wonderful folks, no fun for sure but much better with a good family support. Hang in there and feel good you did your best and be patient with the others. Sorry for your pain.

dusterdude · « **Reply #5 on:** March 04, 2014, 09:54:56 AM »

Damn,sorry bill,you're in my thoughts

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Johnie · « **Reply #6 on:** March 04, 2014, 10:05:50 AM »

So sorry to hear of your loss Bill. Thinking of you during this time. Take solitude in knowing you and your wife went above and beyond for him!

"How very quietly you tiptoed into our world, silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left upon our hearts."

FuZZie · « **Reply #7 on:** March 04, 2014, 10:12:02 AM »

Condolences and best wishes Bill, be thank full of all the time you did have!

brooze72 · « **Reply #8 on:** March 04, 2014, 10:34:51 AM »

Sorry for your loss Bill, peace be with you & your wife.

demon78 · « **Reply #9 on:** March 04, 2014, 10:38:48 AM »

Bill I am sorry for your grief, it's a bummer, as for your father it was time, to push that envelop would have meant that he'd turn into less by far than what he'd been, so wish him well and a good trip and remember him in his younger days and decline, we all get there sooner or later.
Bill the demon.

Maurice · « **Reply #10 on:** March 04, 2014, 11:17:25 AM »

Sorry for your loss. Ignore the crap, as you see we're not on this earth for long best to enjoy every moment... Sounds like you dad's spirit will be with you every time you lay eyes on and touch a bike. In that way he'll always remain.

curemode2002 · « **Reply #11 on:** March 04, 2014, 11:40:20 AM »

Sorry to hear that Bill. It does get better with time. I feel for you on the family side of things my brother wasn't quite as bad as what you are going through. It is really tough when they can't support you during this difficult time.

tomkimberly · « **Reply #12 on:** March 04, 2014, 11:43:37 AM »

Bill you are a good son and did all the right things.

God bless you and your family.

Tom

Jerry Rxman Griffin aka MuthaF'er · « **Reply #13 on:** March 04, 2014, 12:01:50 PM »

Sorry for your loss Bill.

HondanutRider · « **Reply #14 on:** March 04, 2014, 12:24:41 PM »

We all feel for your loss. Take care of your loved ones that remain and be strong for them in this time of mutual grief.

Remember all the good times.

Bob Wessner · « **Reply #15 on:** March 04, 2014, 01:24:49 PM »

Very sorry to hear this Bill. The best to you and your family.

Retro Rocket · « **Reply #16 on:** March 04, 2014, 01:59:07 PM »

Sorry for your loss Bill, even knowing the inevitable doesn't always help, stay strong. I went through a similar thing with my screwed up other half of the family, remember you have the law on your side if it gets to that, they have previous form.....

BobbyR · « **Reply #17 on:** March 04, 2014, 02:28:23 PM »

Sorry about your loss Bill, just try to remember the good times.

bwaller · « **Reply #18 on:** March 04, 2014, 02:48:23 PM »

You have my condolences Bill.

DH · « **Reply #19 on:** March 04, 2014, 02:58:21 PM »

So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing Bill. Keep the faith in this difficult time, and
know that things will work out.

Bailgang · « **Reply #20 on:** March 04, 2014, 03:18:49 PM »

Sorry to hear the news Bill and I'm also sorry to hear your brothers family isn't making it any easier for you. Stay strong.

martin99 · « **Reply #21 on:** March 04, 2014, 03:22:23 PM »

When you're able to get your head round this Bill, I hope you'll take some comfort knowing he passed peacefully and in the company of those who loved him. Condolences and best wishes.
Martin.

fmctm1sw · « **Reply #22 on:** March 04, 2014, 04:05:02 PM »

Bil, my prayers are with you.

honda_dog · « **Reply #23 on:** March 04, 2014, 04:13:41 PM »

Sorry for your loss, Bill. Try and remember all the good times with your Dad, that will get you through. All will work out, trust me.

78 k550 · « **Reply #24 on:** March 04, 2014, 04:28:47 PM »

Bill,
Sorry about the loss of your Father. He sounded like a great man that was indeed loved by many.
He went peaceful in his sleep.
That's how my sister did it in her sleep.

Paul

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