@HondaMan
Thanks for all that information. I did not install HD studs since nowhere did it say that they are required--I would have never bought that gasket otherwise. I will stick with genuine Honda from now on--thought this would be an improvement. Oh well.
Anyhow, the leak seems to come from above the head gasket, below the cam cover gasket, close #3 spark plug. Leaving that plug out and running the engine, it runs for some time without leaking. Then, suddenly oil spurts out under pressure. The head was installed new a few years ago, has hardly any mileage, and was perfectly okay prior to installing a new valve drive, pistons, etc.
Again, I try to take a picture because, once the engine is pulled, it will be difficult to locate the spot again. It is still difficult to see with the frame in the way. But, I would greatly appreciate it, if you could have a look once a pic is posted, and give me your opinion.
Thanks so much,
Tom (currently very sad and disappointed)