I have this petcock

PO had rebuilt the oring just inside and behind the lever. I could not turn the fuel on and off unless using a wrench, so he had used a slightly oversized oring.
I found one that seems to work and seal properly but now have a couple questions. I will be using inline gas filters since the screen fabric is torn on the stand pipe.
In this picture there is a tiny slot (hard to see) that goes through from where the pen end to the inside of the fuel hole. There is one like it on other side too. Are they to be there or did PO mess the stand pipe up?

Also, there is an oring over the stand pipe (not shown on parts list) that looks like this

Without this oring, the stand pipe will pass right through the oring that is in the center of the nut which tightens the petcock to the tank. My guess is that the oring in the nut is also wrong. Find it hard to believe HONDA engineered a two oring sandwich to seal fuel. Anyone know the facts here?
lastly, I read a thread that said their is to be a small d-shaped gasket with two holes in it between the stand pipe and metal body of the petcock. I fab'd one out of 1/16 inch rubber, but it really makes the entire assembly go together out of alignment. (pipe is too high) It would fit here and seal between the bottom of standpipe and petcock body.

The detailed picture on the various fiche's that are on line are not clear enough for me to see what is happening.
So I', trying to figure out if stand pipe is ok to use as is with those slots(holes) and is the two oring sandwich proper or am I hunting for another oring for inside the nut?
Thanks for your ideas and help.