The axle nut is not what actually holds the wheel in place. The nut holds the axle in place and the axle is then clamped to the fork legs.
Yes, i'm well aware of this...
your original post and concern were that tightening #15 below puts excess pressure on the inner races of the bearings....well, im trying to convey that if you tighten #15, and the spacer(#4) is putting excess pressure on bearing (#19) then your stack on the axle is wrong, or, if you've installed new bearings, you havent seated them completely.
Please compare what you have to this picture. Tightening #15 properly, should snug things up, but not distort the inner race of both bearings (#19)
Do you have the spacer (#7) correctly installed?
