Well after being away for holiday weekend and finally getting back from traveling for work I was able to go and first try installing 1/4W resistors and then 1/2W - 22 Ohm resistors with absolutely no luck. I first placed the resistors on the front 2 LED turn signals and then on all four LED turn signals and the exact same thing happend as before for both cases. All signals light up and blink at the same time (imagine having four-ways on blinking).
Is the 22Ohm still to small of resistance?
OK I am confused. What do you mean by "they all light up all at once nice and bright"? Do the left signals all light up when you select left, or do all four - left and right - light up? These are different problems and I assumed the latter when I first read it. The diode fix addresses the "all four signals light up" problem, and only applies to a bike with one "signal" idiot light in the speedo/tach; not an issue on bikes with left and right idiot lights.
I attached a pic of the LED flasher that I have. When i connect them as you describe(green-ground 39; gray 49a; black 49+) all four led turn signals light up and blink at the same time and I can hear the flasher clicking. I have a 74 750 with one signal idiot light, so I'm assuming I need a diode from what your saying.
Now for the dumb questions... How do I install the diode?
Is this what I should be installing?
http://www.superbrightleds.com/moreinfo/car-install-supplies/metric-bike-diode-kit/1190/ I'm confused with the diagram, what is the black rectangle that both left and right connect to? In step 2 it shows the right turn being grounded?
I tried switching the wires on both relay's and i get nothing from the turn signals. All other lights come on.
Do you have multiple relays for the turn signals? Explain that part.
Sorry for the confusion, I have the relay i attached and i also bought another model EP35 from same manufacturer, its the only two they had with the numbers Bodi mentioned so i bought both and tried what you mentioned for both relays (one at a time). I'm not that incompetent

Switching the gray and black (with ground) gave me no flashing at all. Taking the ground wire out resulted in very very dim turn signals staying on (not flashing). I'm assuming this flasher does not work for what you did to yours.
Thanks for the link to your relay. I have it in my cart as i type this, but i was really hoping the resistors would work.