That DSS MC is good. It's plug and play and looks original. You could also possibly fit your original cap on it. DSS has repro outer caliper bodies (and pistons) too if the one you are working with is too far gone. I like Slingshot for stainless (or rubber) lines. He has banjo bolts, crush washers and speedbleeders. Banjos and speedbleeders are available in stainless too. I use EBC pads. Most common replacement. Usually have to sand the paint from outer rim of pads to fit calipers properly.
The high vacuum grease on the back of the pads... I used it on my rebuild. There are several posts on it, but I believe it's purpose is twofold: (1) to keep moisture/gunk away and (2) to possibly help reduce squeal. It has been tested a lot here and the grease doesn't 'run' when hot and get on pads, etc. I put it on the back of my pads and a little on the metal side walls. Just be careful and don't get it on the pad surfaces.