Topic: First time

[ic455]

hmmm I guess I dont know what to say about that

RKS

Not trying to say Marriage is bad or anything, just in my case it's kinda gone sour.

Best of luck and congratulations to you!

[Rsnip988]

well some thing just arent meant to be i guess

sorry you soured

RKS

[nickjtc]

I have to confess to being a little cynical about the whole marraige thing. When you look at the stats (40 % of first marraiges in Canada fail, 50% in the US) you cannot help but wonder why people bother.... And stats for second marraiges are even worse!

[Rsnip988]

People have commitment issues, It kinda died with the whole   "liberal-hippie if it feels good do it" thing,  the right thing to do is rarely th easy thing, perhaps some people get married that shouldnt...   however if people wouldnt screw around before they are sure they want to spend the rest of their lives together, we would have less drama also


there i go ranting again


RKS

[ic455]

Yeah, but my wife and I dated since 8th grade, things were great back then

[nickjtc]

Call me a GHOF, but if people actually stopped and thought about the vows that they make when they are standing in front of each other, and then thought about how they could openly and honestly make a commitment to themselves and each other to live by them, maybe things would be different.

Easy divorce and lack of moral fortitude has sounded the death knell of what was once an honourable institution.

GHOF, out.