I have had this exact problem happen but the oil blockage was caused by longterm storage rather than silicon. The best thing to do is replace the whole valvetrain as a set, cam, towers and rockers, and shafts, all from the same engine. This is what I did and most everything has been well for 9000 miles or so. Good, used but mismatched parts can be used, it is just not as ideal. The parts will have to re-establish a wear pattern and this will reduce the ultimate longevity of the parts but probably not to an unacceptable level.
In my situation, cam and tower destruction was rapid and catastrophic and only on the #4 end of the engine, similar to yours. I have no evidence of cylinder head damage as I have not yet torn the motor down beyond the cam towers. However, my valve cover will no longer hold a seal for more than about 1000 miles, despite 3 new gaskets and attempts at "bodging it shut. The leaks always begin on the #4 end of the engine. I believe the camshaft failure warped the valve cover or the gasket rail.