Pretty sure I'm being tagged as the hater/old guy. Don't be too thin-skinned cali, you've received some of the most valuable advice you'll get anywhere already in this thread, if you're wise you'll sift and take much of it.
Personally I prefer stockish bikes with modern upgrades to things like suspension, tires, brakes, electrics. That's where my tastes lay. In fact though I have nothing against the custom bikes, quite the opposite, some of the bikes that guys have built and shared here are amazing, in form AND function. What I object to is when form totally trumps function, in ways that make the motorcycle uncomfortable, unstable, and unsafe, and yes, many of the "brat" or "cafe" builds I see have achieved just that. The lowering of front ends as shown a few posts back is a particular "red cape" for me. There could be no more of an ignorant, foolish modification done to a motorcycle than that, it gets me out of the woodwork every time.
Go re-read the advice you were given, and quit taking it as some attack on you personally. Build yourself a #$%*in' custom motorcycle that expresses your taste and style. Just be careful that when you're finished it still works well as a motorcycle, goes, stops, turns, you can control it effectively and yes, safely. You're not the only person on the roads.