You don't need to surface clean parts before anodizing, Scott. The first step in anodizing is a cleaner/etch stage. Whatever is on there, will be off. Anodizing, unlike powder or paint, is infused into the material. So it's "thinner" than a power coat by a few mils, but somewhat impregnated and can be more durable than paint. It's not more durable than powder coat, even hard anodizing.
Best to get an alloy hex wrench to deal with those tappers so they stay beautiful forever. You can get away with steel, but alloy is safer to prevent marring. I think Trad found a set online for much less than the Joker/CycleX tappets. He seemed happy with them and they were less.