Good info i will need to look for the oring the washer is there but i didnt pull it off and look behind it, the oring may not be there
in your vid it looks like the o-ring is there, directly under the nut. or is it some (wrong) small diameter, thick washer? of course i might be wrong as the picture is a bit small and sometimes unsharp. but it did not look right to me.
flybox is right, it might just be a bit stuck. don't force the screw too much with the screwdriver or you'll brake it, just use some penetrating oil and wiggle it around a bit.
with the nut on but loose, you can also try pushing the screw in a bit and pulling it out again. leave the nut on because if you push it in all the way it will be a pain to get out.