My 750k5 and 550k0 both have the same type headlite systems with an on/off switch on the right bar handle and hi/lo on the left bar handle. I used bosch micro relays# 0 332 207 109 from the engine fuse box of a 99-2000 (ish) ford taurus. There are several systems, such as compressor clutch that use this relay, and I bought 10 of them for 2.00 at a salvage yard. They are 10/20 amp,12v, 5 terminal, spdt relays that I wired with jumpers made to Hondaman's specifications that I made myself.
the whole thing cost around 5.00 dollars to make, and it's a tight fit, 2 relays each in the headlight of both bikes. the jumpers are available thru Hondaman if you want pre made. also, when wired to Hondaman's schematic, only 1 wire travels from the battery to headlight shell, and I believe that single wire takes the headlight current load off the keyswitch.. All other wiring stays inside the shell. Will post pic for reference if I am able to find one.
EDIT similar to this one in size and configuration