I've done a lot of painting and never seen this.
I'm trying gloss black Rustoleum epoxy appliance enamel, hoping to do a tank with it. I painted a lawnmower tank as a test.
This small tank was prepared by removing the old paint using a wire wheel, sanding with 100 grit then 600 grit, washing with soap and water, extensive rinsing, drying, wash with isopropyl, final wash with acetone.
After drying the paint went on quite nicely except...
Some spots repelled the paint, it just jumped back from the metal.
As far as I know no silicon was ever used on it, and the multiple different washing should have taken that off anyway?
It looks like a silicon problem but I can't figure how it got there.
Taking pics of shiny black paint is hard, but this shows sorta what happened - the silver parts are bare steel:

Any ideas on how to avoid this?
And: the epoxy paint, after curing one week, seems fuel-proof.