Your symptoms have changed since you first started. You now have a short circuit to ground on the common harness black wire, fed from the key switch. To locate the short without spending a small fortune on fuses, wire a light, like a tail light, with spades and replace the inline fuse with it. It will limit the current to a safe level, and allow you to unplug loads and view the effect: with a dead short, the bulb will be as bright as when directly across the battery terminals. With a normal, non-fuse blowing load, it will be dimmer. You might want to start by disconnecting the black wire between the harness and the kill/start switch.