Did you wire wheel pre-plating?
It seems no matter what mix or method you use, there's always that dull coating -- some sort of zinc oxide I guess -- that you have to remove. As such, measuring things out seems rather unnecessary; buncha vinegar, some water, some epsom salts, bit of sugar, whatever low DC voltage you can find, and some zinc.
I have found preparation to be key though, the coating came off the rear axle as I was wire wheeling, but only on the shaft, where there would have been anti-seize/lubricant applied for many years, so it really needed a more thorough degreasing and wire wheeling. I decided to just let it flake off, since I only cared about the head, as the rest would be covered in anti-seize for its entire life, not to mention that it actually increased the dimensions to the point it wouldn't fit in the bearing anyway.