I know what you mean Terry. When my first grandchild was on the way, I had my Mum air freight from New Zealand the bassinet (crib) that my Dad had built for my babies. Air freight cost around $115. When it arrived, I spent half a day driving up and down the freeway from the freight office (pay money, get paperwork) to customs at the airport (pay more money, get paperwork stamped) back to the freight office (pick up package) back to the airport (more money, quarantine inspection) - total cost was $220 over and above the freight cost and they didn't actually charge me any import taxes!!!!
On the other hand, my latest parcel from DSS (sent by Royal Mail), I was charged 8 pounds (around $20) for postage, it was on my doorstep in a week with 16 pounds worth of postage coupons on it. The parts were around half the price my local Honda dealer charges, they are tax free and they are here quicker without even having to fight the traffic across town.