you don't need the cam installed to find TDC. the cam does not affect motion of the piston - it affects the valves.
so with or without cam, insert your piston stop the rotate the crank until the piston bits it (gently). note the degrees. then rotate the other way until the piston hits the stop on the other side. note the degrees. calculate TDC by taking the middle between these two values.
TDC is basically half way between the piston stopping in either direction.