BREAKTHROUGH!
sort of...
I put the headlight shell from the F model back on, and started connecting wires. First I isolated all the grounds (green) and banded them together, so I could easily find them in the compressed rat's nest. My battery wasn't providing much power, so I put it on the charger. Eventually got to point where idiot lights work, starter works; still no running light circuit (head, tail, running lights). Kept puzzling over this to no avail.
While looking for fuses, I came across the F model harness that Tom/El Cheapo had sent me (in good shape as promised!). Looking at it, I saw something that Scott had mentioned but I didn't grasp because I hadn't seen it on my wiring. Scott said: "...the 7A taillight fuse that is supplied by a Brown/Blue wire at the harness head that is, now get this, attached to a Black 2-3 way connector which is a ignition switched 12V supply..."
Well, I couldn't find any such thing in my wiring, but there it was on the harness Tom had sent! So I took out the short length with the two male connectors from the F harness and put into my mess.
Eureka! Headlight, running lights, taillight, and instrument lights all came to life. There's something wrong at the tail, probably where the PO hastily put in wires to run to the hardbag mounted lights. I'll get to that later. The battery gave out right after this revelation. Cheap Wal-Mart junk. I'll replace it with a proper bike battery later. The key thing is: Houston, we have some progress.
There's more to come, but in the meantime I just had to say thanks to y'all for hanging in there and talking me through this. No more working on this till Sat night (after the Sabbath, or Shabbat as we call it).
Woohoo!