The condensors are there just to reduce arcing at the contacts, and original or "new" NOS ones may well be dried out and not effective. You can measure capacitance with some multimeters and that's worthwhile if you have such a meter. The typical points capacitor is rated .22 microfarad and 450 volts. I'm not sure what Honda uses but the value should be printed on the part, and the actual reading should be withing 10% or so of the rated value. If you're looking for a new set they must be non-polarized, like a motor start capacitor, but finding one that small isn't so easy.
Use really doesn't affect these components, it's time that takes a toll.
The capacitor works along with the coil so a replacement coil may have different characteristics and not play so well with the stock capacitor? And a lower impedance coil - like the 3 Ohm Dyna ones - will cause more arcing mostly because the coil current is higher.