i've noticed Ben can be a little whinny crybaby when he wants to be ....
he's a coo mofo ... but i've seen him break out the #$%* tactics before
i bet he just needs to flex those -"I'm a man *grunt* I'm in charge *grunt*" muscles
or your a totally liar, and it's all your fault.
![Grin ;D](http://forums.sohc4.net/Smileys/default/grin.gif)
either way ... have fun