It is true gasoline is much more expensive here than in the US. Every country in the world needs US dollars to be able to buy oil. There's only one country however that can print as many dollars as they like... Read Barry Eichengreen's Exorbitant Privilege, the rise and fall of the dollar and you'll understand how we in fact finance your cheap gasoline. For years and years the US manages to consume more than it produces. Ever thought of how that is possible? Let me quote US treasury secretary under Nixon, John Connally :
"The dollar happens to be our currency and your problem."
As for Holland, we're doing fine. We're at least as rich as Americans, only wealth here is distributed differently. Nobody but the police and military needs arms and we live, in Franklin Delano Roosevelt's words, free of fear. Social mobility is far higher than in the US. Read Nobel prize laureate Joseph Stiglitz (also an American) on this. So... as far as the American Dream... dream on! We're also free of the bombardment of advertisements one can not escape in the US. Last summer my hand had to reach for the dashboard every ten minutes to mute the radio and the continuous: 'have more for less' hysteria.
Our pension funds are about the biggest in the world and sit on a sum twice the GDP, a situation Americans can only dream of. Also we produce a lot. Any idea where the steel for the chassis of your pick-up trucks comes from? In spite of the tarifs, carmakers like Ford still want it, because there are no steel works in the US that can deliver the same quality. Steel works in the US are still the open furnace type. We had them too... in the Middle Ages. If you want to know more about our steel, why it is 17% lighter and yet stronger, I'll be glad to inform you.