10mm head type is tough, with the aftermarket "big nut" ones you have more torque possible... but owners tend to really overtighten them.
It corrodes onto the housing face and the bore outside the o-ring. The threads are not going to sejze, soaked in oil.
Try heating the filter case end around the bolt with a propane torch, not red hot but sizzling a bit. Put an ice cube against the bolt head for a few seconds and try a wrench if the had is ok, visegrips on the flange if not.
If it is super stuck, weld a largish nut to the head. The heating and the better torque possible should get it off.