If it helps at all, I have a front caliper that has not been rebuilt, but I did disassemble it to grease the pins and make sure everything worked.
Anyways, to retract the pistons to reinstall the caliper I had to squeeze pretty hard on the brake pad with a pair of channel-locks. They retract slowly. I did one side at a time, first the piston farthest away from the brake line, then the one closer. Otherwise, you might pop the other piston out by squeezing the closer one first...
Good luck!