I think you just need to clean all of the crud out of the hole and it's counterbores thoroughly before developing the idea that it's somehow worn.
I remember reading in that leak-free top end thread about these seals not being necessary, I even mentioned it to Hondaman somewhere and he was like, "wait, WHAT?" So I'm going to go with the idea that all of the seals Honda intended are going to be needed in my engines, doing anything less would be inviting leaks.