When I need good hardware for our race cars, I visit my local airport. There is a small company there that does maintenance on aircraft and has counter sales for others. One of the guys is an off road motorcyclist! Years ago, set me up with a few old catalogues and spec sheets, so I learned the ordering protocol for spec hardware.
This stuff is not cheap, but when I want really excellent hardware (nuts, bolts, wire, cable pins, rivets and just about anything else), I head there, with lots of CASH.